Sunday, March 14, 2010

Haiti - Day 3

Roosters. I guess I've never lived on a farm and know they wake up early, but but 3am? Seems the internal rooster clock is off by AT LEAST a few hours. So, it was a little sleepless from then until we got up around 6:30.

We left for church this morning about 9am. The church meets a few miles away across town on a school campus. To get there we piled in the truck that the ministry uses to do their field medical care and doubles as an ambulance. It has a big enclosed areaon the back that you can sit inside of and an area on top where you can ride with a better vantage point. The only thing to be careful of up there are low hanging branches, powerlines and barb-wire. Definitely a good idea to keep eyes up. As we made our way through town we could start to see the devestation. Buildings that had crumbled, tent cities that had formed, people asking for money on the corners. It was pretty amazing the amount of damage caused in such a short period of time. Some houses had collapsed and slid down the side of a hill and 4 story buildings that just dropped like a pancake to the ground.

The church service was really good. It is lead by John and some other missionaries in the area. There were probably about 60-70 people there and it was similar to a church service in the US. They are meeting outside right now as the campus where they meet has been a home to the US military since the earthquake. It was really awesome to be there and worship with the Haitians. As I mentioned earlier, they are a happy people despite the conditions and it was great to see the hope that these believers had and the passion that they showed. I sat next to a Haitian man about 20 years old and we talked after the service. He was very interested in what we were doing and how we were helping. At one point in the conversation he asked me "How is the us different from Haiti?" Wow, didn't expect that question and I wasn't really sure how to answer it. The differences are huge, but I didn't want to make it seem like the US has it all together and Haiti doesn't, although when comparing a lot of things it does seem that way. As i realize some of these differences it makes me think about how life would be different had i been born in a different part of the world. Andy mentioned he lives up the hill a little ways from the church in a building that survived the earthquake, but he didn't have a job and wasn't able to find one. I thought this was interesting given the 'work' that would have been created from the earthquake, but the problem isn't so much 'lack of work', but 'lack of money'. People can't afford to hire people to do work for them. Interesting problem. Many people rent the building that they live in and they pay rent for the year upfront rather than month to month. So, in these cases they have a place to stay, but a lot of these places collapsed, so now they have pitched a tent on the roof of the collapsed building or on the ground next to it and that is where they live. The owners don't have the money or choose not to fix the house and the tenants are stuck.


John took a us out to see more of the city this afternoon. Sunday is the best time because there isn't as much traffic and it is less busy. As we drove through the city it was a very eye-opening and at times disturbing scene. A lot of it was similar to images that we had seen on TV over the last few months, but it is a lot different to in person. It was interesting how some buildings would crumble while others were find with only minor (visible) damage and others right in between were fully destroyed. The magnitude of the tragedy began setting in more as John pointed out things affected by the earthquake and things were beforehand. I wrestled with the reality of the situation as we drove around. People walking in the streets were dressed nicely as if you would see in america, so i had a hard time understanding that they don't just walk around the next corner and go into their nice house, take a warm shower and sleep in a bed. Yet that is not the case for pretty much everyone. As we drove through the streets there was trash just piled out in the road where it is then burned all day long.

From Haiti - Day 3

The smell was pretty intense at times. Throughout a large part of Port-au-Prince this was the scene. This is normal life to them. Most of the people have no idea that there is anything different and this is where they have spent their life. In a lot of ways they are stuck. Even if they wanted to live a different life or try to be successful the resources aren't available to them to do it. There is no education, except in some private expensive schools, no money, a virtually inactive corrupt government to help....just each other and whatever they have at the moment in time.

From Haiti - Day 3

We drove past a 'market' where food is sold out on the street. It was just in piles and when it was no good anymomre they would push it out into the street where it is crushed by traffic and trampled on until it rots away. You can imagine the smell. Not like your typical produce dept down at safeway. We went down to the palace where we drove past the equivalent of the white house. It was like something out of a movie. I'm not sure that Hollywoord could have done a better job It looked surreal. Across the street from the palace was a huge tent city in the field. Kids running around naked, people cooking dinner.
We finished up the day with dinner at Bryon and Shelly's and then had a sunday evening service at their house. Joel spoke about what we saw today and about how we need to look at how we can impact people we come in contact with on a smaller more personal scale. One thing i grappled with today was how does anyone fix these problems? These are God sized problems that really seem beyond the scope of 'anything' that any number of people and any amount of money could solve. We have to trust that God has a plan for Haiti and look at how we fit into that. These are God's people too and it's hard to understand why things are good for some people and bad for others sometimes. I was a humbling day as it feels like no matter what you do it just doesn't seem like it really can make a significant impact on the population of people there.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Haiti - Day 2 - Arriving in Haiti


We arrived in Haiti today. We got to the airport in Miami where we spend a few hours before getting on the plane to and it was interesting observing some of the people going down there. Some Haitians, some teams of workers and others that looked to be going on vacation. Maybe not the time to be vacationing in Haiti :) The flight was quick and when landing it didnt look a lot different from the sky than somewhere like Jamaica or Hawaii. At the airport we got a taste of Haiti. There was a lot of military setup at the airport still helping with relief efforts. We got to customs and didn't have any trouble, then we got to baggage claim. It wasn't quite like the typical baggage claim experience. They basically pitched luggage into a pile through a door where 200 some people started digging through to find their stuff.
We had 16 checked bags (2 a piece), because we had all loaded as much as we could to bring down with us to Heartline, and it took probably close to an hour to track them all down. We had one person watching the bags as we found and piled them and the rest of us hunted through the piles of bags to find the ones that belonged to us. Not really the most efficient system :) We finally got them all and then ventured out to try to find John and our ride from the airport. There was a fence that separated the airport from the people outside. They would open the gate long enough to let people out into the crowd of hungry baggage carriers who would basically jump on you to carry your bags to make a couple bucks.
Fortunately there were a couple guys there to help us (who John had sent for us) and they took our bags. We had all 16 bags loaded onto 2 of those little airport luggage carts. We walked out of the gates through the mob of people and proceeded into the street to get down to where John had the truck parked. The streets are busy and crazy so it was interesting trying to get these two overloaded carts down the street between all the cars. Twice all the bags on the carts fell off all over the place in the street and there was a scramble to get them back on the carts before the 'other' baggage guys grabbed them. It was pretty intense for a few minutes.

The ride through town was crazy. Kids coming up to the truck asking for money, people lining the streets trying to sell things...As we went through town we could see some of the damage from the earthquake...some collapsed, or leaning, buildings and walls and people living in tents right off the side of the road.

We got to the house we were going to be staying at and could see some of the outer protective walls were still damaged and some completely down in a pile of broken bricks. Each of the houses has an armed guard at the gate for protection. We went over to the makeshift hospital where they have cots lined up under a tent made from PVC and tarps.
It actually is a pretty ingenious design considering what is available to them. It was pretty large, probably about 40 feet in length and 20 feet wide. There were probably about 30-40 people in the hospital being treated. Some are still in after-care or recovery from earthquake related injuries, while others are just there for more recent sickness or injuries. Some had pins in their legs, others IVs hanging from a pole that was cemented into a large bucket with an eye-hooked zip-tied to the top. Desperate times call for desperate measures. Right after the earthquake occurred there were a lot of people requiring amputations due to being stuck under a building, etc and most of these were done with no pain-killers or anesthesia. It just isn't available to them there. There were a lot of mothers who were either about to have a baby or just had one and were sitting in the tent nursing their newborns among the crowd of people. This field hospital had significantly better conditions than most of the local hospitals from what the doctors who were volunteering had to say after visiting a few of them. It's all perspective I guess. We handed out some dumdums to the patients and then were all very excited, especially the kids. Following the time at the hospital we went over to Byron and Shelly's house and had a great meal of ham, beans, salad and some great Mango. We headed back over to the hospital after for the evening church service and it was awesome to watch the injured who were so excited to have the service. Things are different here in many ways. Time is relative, work is optional. Most people don't have any sort of plan for their day and everyone seems to enjoy spending time together at the hospital or anywhere we see them...in the streets, the market...Once again makes me think about how American culture is so different and a lot times so rushed.
4 of us decided to sleep outside on the balcony because it is SO hot and since the city power shuts off towards evening time all the houses have a battery / charging system that runs the lights and fans and stuff at night. As a result about 2 in the morning the fans shut off because the batteries die. So, at least sleeping outside it was a little cooler. Because of the mosquito problem and the possibility of Malaria we each had our own mosquito net tent that we slept under. It definitely was cooler to sleep outside.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Haiti - Day 1

Friday - 3/12

We left Denver this morning on the flight to Miami where we are staying the night and heading to Haiti Tomorrow. I think this is going to be a great trip and a good perspective adjustment. Everyone on the team has expressed that the have had a tough week leading up to the trip with a lot of challenges. It is encouraging to know that it wasn't just me. It has been interesting so far as people have asked us what we are going to be doing while in Haiti and everyone thinks that what we're doing is great, but still to want to keep Haiti at arms length and not be affected by it personally. Maybe because it isn't something that we can directly relate to on a daily basis makes it easier to overlook.
I'm excited to get there and to get started with things. I'm a little nervous about the trip, but at the same time curious to see how I will be affected when we get there and see some of the things we have talked about like the extreme poverty, sickness, injured and devastation of the area after the earthquake. Still I believe this is an important trip and is what God wants me to do. I want to be fully engaged this week and try not to be distracted or be unaffected by the things we'll see and the people we encounter. I believe God wants to teach me some important things through this experience and I'm excited to learn what they are.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Christmas 2009

Ok, so i'm WAY behind schedule posting about Christmas, but I'm going to try to get caught up...

Christmas was really nice...we stayed home just us for Christmas and had a really nice relaxing time. I decided that i think i like having Christmas on Friday the best...take Christmas Eve off, make it a 4 day weekend and it really seems longer. We had snow a few days before Christmas, so it wasn't snowing on Christmas day, but we still had pretty substantial snow on the ground. We took Blake out through the neighborhood in his little sled (that we found at a garage sale this summer...for $3!). He REALLY likes the snow...the funny thing is he doesn't seem to get cold. Maybe it's just that he can't 'tell' us that he is cold. Either way, he seems to like it a lot.
We made it out to The Cheesecake Factory on Christmas Eve for a family dinner together. We decided we want to work on getting some yearly traditions together for the Christmas holidays that we and the kids can look forward to each year. So, we're taking suggestions. If anyone has any that they have done with their families that has been fun, we'd love to hear about them. We have some friends that do a big seafood dinner Christmas Eve and others that open gifts that night and so on. We're just trying to pin down a few unique fun ones that we can adopt. Let us know if you have any good ones :)
Kona and Blake were in charge of opening gifts. It was pretty entertaining to watch. Kona learned a couple of years ago how to open gifts and so she taught Blake what it was all about. Didn't take long for him to catch on and pretty soon they were both tearing the presents apart. The hardest part was explaning which ones were theirs. We still wanted to open our gifts :) They had a great time. Blake's second Christmas was even better than the first. It's pretty fun to see him get excited about it. I'm sure next year will be even better!
Grammy and Grampy & Rachel Bankson came out the week after Christmas to visit and also to watch Blake for us for a week while we escaped the cold and made a trip out to Hawaii. We had a really nice time visiting with them for a little time on either end of the trip. It was a lot of fun to see them. It's nice to see family during the holidays and even though it wasn't on Christmas we still enjoyed getting to spend some time with them. I had talked with a few clients and friends the weeks leading up to Christmas and in talking about what everyone was doing for the holidays they had mentioned family coming or going to visit and most of them would make a comment about how 'well, it's the holiday's and that's just what we have to do' making it sound like it was a painful experience. I'm glad that we don't feel that way about it and always look forward to spending time with family. It's unfortunate that people see it that way i think. As a side note, we went bowling while they were here, just for fun one day, and had some of the best bowling ever. Collectively we were able to break 300 as a team of 3...i consider that pretty good :) AND, i had my best game EVER throwing 5 strikes in a row (i was in a groove) and breaking 200. Not too shabby. Makes me wonder if i need to look into the bowling club :) Not really...maybe in like 20 years.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

It's a Girl!!!

This week was the 20 week ultrasound and it's a girl! We're pretty excited. We'll start things off with a boy and girl. Not too shabby. Guess we don't have to worry about not having any girls :) The ultrasound went great...everything looked good, all measurements were right and the due date is the same (May 6, 2010). We'll see if she comes on her due date as Blake did. We can't wait. We were excited to have Abby's grandparents and cousin in town for the ultrasound and to visit with this last week. We had a lot of fun and it's always nice to visit with family. We're glad they came.
It's been a busy few weeks leading up to Christmas...we've been shopping, getting our tree, putting lights up and chasing Blake around. It's been a lot of fun, but the holidays seem to be coming up very quickly and will probably be over before we know it. Blake is excited and thinks the Christmas tree is a lot of fun. He keeps pulling ornaments off of it and trying to crawl behind it. But otherwise hasn't got into too much trouble with it.
We have had the chance to go to a Christmas parade in Boulder a few weeks back. That was cold but fun. We had a cold streak there for a few weeks but since have warmed up again and it's been really nice the last week or so. We've been going to the various Christmas parties for this time of the year and those have been a lot of fun. I've never been a big fan of white elephant gift exchanges (just seems like 'here have my junk and you can have mine'), but this year they seemed a little better than usual. Hard to believe Christmas is less than a week away now, but I think we're ready. Blake is excited to see Grammy and Grampy and Rachel the week after Christmas and so are we.
We've been thinking the last week or so about the year as we wrote the Christmas letter and as the year comes to an end and it has made us think about the blessings that we have in each other as family and how God provides. It has been a crazy year in many ways, but overall good. We have had the opportunity to go on some adventures this year and have learned a lot as parents (still have a long way to go). We really value our friendships and although we miss seeing our family we really enjoy the times we have got to spend with them this year and hopefully all the more next year.
Merry Christmas!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

November


Guess i have a little catching up to do...just realized i hadn't posted to the blog in a few weeks. Well, we have been pretty busy these last few weeks getting ready for the Christmas season already. Seems like it gets earlier every year, but that's alright. When the snow falls a few times and they start playing Christmas music and serving the Christmas drinks at Starbucks you start getting excited for Christmas. Just the same, it is still a ways off so we're trying not to jump the gun too early.

Blake is keeping us busy and is good entertainment. He likes to run and tackle us if we're sitting on the floor now, so that's fun. Only problem is he thinks it is fun to charge at you head first and his head is harder than ours. He is also dancing, climbing and running everywhere. It's fun but keeps you moving :) He'd really like to be able to do some talking because he wants to say something sometimes, but just can't get it out. We did some sign language with him, but he really just doesn't like to do it. Every once in a while he'll do something, but most of the time he just points and shrieks....unless there are doughnuts involved...then he's very willing to use sign language. So, either more doughnuts or forget the sign language...well that's kind of a no-brainer....doughnuts of course :) j/k

We just got the second storm of the season this weekend...about a foot. I think it is going to be pretty snowy this year. Two storms that have been pretty substantial in November...not normal. We may just be making up for the lack of snow last year...i think we had one substantial storm (more than a foot) last year. Guess we'll see.
We're getting pretty excited for baby #2 coming in the spring. Still a ways off at this point, so not much other than a thought right now, but excting nonetheless. Seems to be in the water again right now b/c a lot of our friends are having kids too.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Fall

You know fall has arrived when you drive down the street and see pumpkins smashed all over the place, we're starting to wonder when we are going to get the first substantial snow and the boat goes into storage for the season. Just the other day we were out for a walk and the smell of fall was in the air and leaves were everywhere...pretty sweet. We're never too sure about the change of seasons when they first start because it seems like we just got used to the season and it changes, but then you get all the great colors of fall and the first snow is always exciting.
Last weekend we went out to the pumpkin patch with Blake and wandered through the fields of pumpkins, ran around on the hay bails and checked out the farm animals. Blake thought it was pretty awesome. It was pretty fun...i don't think i've been to a big pumpkin patch quite this large before...it was fun (even it it did take us like 30 minutes to get out of there because the pumpkin patch traffic was so crazy...dang).

We spent a nice day downtown at REI and walking around the park down there. It was a beautiful day...people were swimming in the river down there. Blake would have liked to and probably would have if we had let him :)

We have Blake already for Halloween...and he went to a costume birthday party for his buddies first birthday a few weeks ago. Only problem is he is growing so fast we're not sure he'll fit in the costume by Halloween, but at least he had a chance to wear it. He also got a couple treats from grammy for Halloween and was pretty excited about what he found in the box.